TanYen's Flaming Friday

Here is the post about the awesome friday that i mention in my previous post. The invitation were as below:

Event : The "Don't-Celebrate-TanYen's-Birthday" Dinner & Wine
Date : Friday 04 DEC, 9 pm onwards
Venue : Jared & Rawlins, Damansara Heights

Rules : No "Happy Birthday" ( just dont use the words, get creative ), No Presents, No Cakes ( Lets have the candles ready, we dont have to use cake, candles have to show 21 y/o ), No Birthday Song.

Cool invitation huh? If you are wondering why is there such rules, this is because the bday girl herself is anti-bday...hahahha which is kinda understood...who wants to have a celebration for getting older, right? younger maybe...or hotter :P

So yeah..after work, Aaron and i went to have a quick dinner in cheras and head back to damansara for the event. You might be thinking from Mont kiara -> cheras -> damansara, how can i make it on time right? We reached the restaurant at 9.10 pm thinking that we were late but guess what? as usual we are the early birds....i guess its just us...always on time..or rather me! hehe... :)

The food is lovely, the wine is fantastic and the gang are brilliant..i never failed to have fun with this people...one of the most joyful and positive gang i must say...every outing with them is full of laughter and smiles.... =)

We drank about 6 bottles of wine from all around the world and i am a lil bit tipsy towards the end of the night...But the night did not stop at J&R. We left J&R around 2am and headed to club twentyone in BSC. If i can remember such details im not so tipsy after all eh? ;p After a drink, we left the club at 3am and hang out at Delesh's house nearby....merely just chatting and chilling... By the time i reach home...its 5+am!!

I'll let the pictures take over now...It such a great way to end a depressed and stressful week, dont you think?...looking forward in meeting them soon! =)

yummy sausages~

yummy cheese...i miss the blue cheese!

yummy mushrooms

the awesome gang!

shirly, yvonne, tanyen, me

the accessories

the empty wine bottles

@ bsc bangsar
(shirly, me, tanyen, yanzer, yvonne)

with tanyen and yanzer

see? im not tipsy! :)

helping the birthday girl with her flaming lamborghini

delesh, me, tanyen, yanzer

Christmas Wishes

After the tragic BLACK Friday, i had an awesome weekend! On friday night, went for a friend's birthday party. I should blog about this one separately later =)

On saturday, i was suppose to meet up with Chester for lunch but i woke up only around 3pm! So i postponed the lunch plan to dinner. Picked him up from klcc and head to pavillion! The christmas deco is amazing there...i kinda forgot my camera so no pictures...hehe ( i am a lousy blogger eh?) We (or more like He) shopped in Quicksilver and Roxy because they were having friends & family sales, so everything there has discounts from 50-70%!!!! However, i walked out of the shop empty handed cos most of the clothes and bikinis ran out of my size =_=

While having dinner in Madam Kwan's, we noticed an elderly lady giving instructions to the workers and taking feedbacks from the customers. We were curious and Chester went and ask if she is Madam Kwan herself. And indeed she is! Woww.. meeting Madam Kwan ...such a honour and lucky day dont you think? Later on, we arjourned for a pool and mamak session with both Aaron and Joshua.

On another note, Christmas is just around the corner, and i am thinking maybe i should have a simple christmas wish this year for myself...no gadgets, no new phones and absolutely no clothes or shoes. So whats my wish?



1- to be happy and merry
2- determined to see all the christmas deco in all the malls and hotels (with 2weeks away? i better start now)
3- to have a nice meal ;)
4- to share the season of giving with everybody
5- be happy, happy, happy =)

Sound easy and simple? Why make it complicated? Sometimes in life....the simplest things is the happiest things don't you think so?

So if any of you out there who is free on christmas lets meet up! Maybe we can have a small celebration of our own..hahah :) Whats your christmas wishes?

A series of unfortunate events

I have no idea why today is such a bad luck day for me =_=

1- this morning on the way to work almost bang the car in front of me. Was not my fault...the driver slammed the brake without giving me proper warning! Thank god i manage to stepped on the brake on time..or else i think ill end up paying rm300 fine..

2- tripped for the duno-know-how many times since i came into the office and client's office....suddenly the coordination of my legs and body doesnt seem right..

3- during lunch a waiter spilled quarter of my drinks onto my lap =_=

4- found out that after not even a month of getting my E71, E72 is out :(

5- came back to the office, my computer died on me! Restart after so many times and then the email is down pulak...

Can my day get any worst than this? Oh god! please tell me there is no more such events...im already breaking down... Really BLACK friday i tell you... Hopefully the weekend will be much better!

This week is seriously depressing....
Have a great weekend everyone!

Health tips

My friend forwarded this health article to me...

"Sex is the best workout, say experts"

Sex is the best workout, say experts It could be the hottest health tip ever. According to physicians and gynaecologists, a romp in the bed is the panacea for a host of problems including heart disease, migraine and arthritis. Recent studies indicate that vigorous lovemaking, including pre-intercourse sex, raises pulse rate from a normal 70 beats per minute to 150. Upto 250 calories get burnt up as a result and this is the equivalent of 15 minutes of jogging or a game of squash.

In fact those too lazy to visit the gym can opt for a more active sex life instead. World-renowned sexologist Dr Prakash Kothari, quoting British researchers, says muscular contractions during intercourse exercise various body parts like the pelvis, thighs, buttocks, arms and thorax. This helps stimulate testosterone production in males and leads to stronger bones and muscles. Those with weak bones or suffering from osteoporosis stand to gain the most. Sex three to four times a week similarly cuts down chances of a heart attack, insist cardiologists. In fact studies conducted at the Queen's University in Belfast conclude that the risk of a coronary seizure could be reduced by as much as half. Coitus also sharpens the senses, thanks to a hormone called prolactin that is produced after the act. It causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons and thereby sensory organs function better. But the carnal route to healthy life is fraught with dangers.

Experts warn that erection achieved through drugs denies the male sex organ time to recover between copulations and could result in permanent harm. Abstinence and incomplete sex too have adverse effects. In case of women, failure to climax could set off back pain and stomach cramps. Avoiding sex for long periods may lead to vaginal atrophy and intercourse would then become a very painful affair, says Lucknow gynaecologist Dr Sushma Pandey. While wary of making a case for unprotected sex, condoms, admit experts, do nothing for coital bliss. According to them, the rubber prevents prostaglandin, a hormone-like substance found in semen, from getting absorbed into the female genital tract and could considerably reduce sexual pleasure.

Those who look for sex outside marriage are also likely to be blessed with good health (what??), claims Dr JK Tewari of the Department of Psychiatry, King George's Medical University, Lucknow . Although it's a view certain to make the blood of morality minders boil, doctors say illegitimate physical relations could cure hypertension.




Hahaha..i wonder how true is the article above. Hmmm...maybe i should stop yoga as a form of exercise and change it to.... kidding kidding..lol :P

Tuesday's Thoughts

In Phoenix , Arizona , a 26-year-old mother stared down at her 6 year old son, who was dying of terminal leukemia.

Although her heart was filled with sadness, she also had a strong feeling of determination. Like any parent, she wanted her son to grow up and fulfill all his dreams. Now that was no longer possible.

The leukemia would see to that. But she still wanted her son's dream to come true. She took her son's hand and asked, 'Billy, did you ever think about what you wanted
to be once you grew up ?Did you ever dream and wish what you would do with your life?'

Mommy, 'I always wanted to be a fireman when I grew up.'

Mom smiled back and said, 'Let's see if we can make your wish come true.'

Later that day she went to her local fire Department in Phoenix , Arizona , where she met Fireman Bob, who had a heart as big as Phoenix.

She explained her son's final wish and asked if it might be possible to give her 6 year-old son a ride around the block on a fire engine.

Fireman Bob said, 'Look, we can do better than that. If you'll have your son ready at seven o'clock Wednesday morning, we'll make him an honorary Fireman for the whole day. He can come down to the fire station, eat with us, go out on all the fire calls, the whole nine yards ! And if you'll give us his sizes, we'll get a real fire uniform for him, with a real fire hat - not a toy -- one-with the emblem of the Phoenix Fire Department on it, a yellow slicker like we wear and rubber boots.'

'They're all manufactured right here in Phoenix, so we can get them fast.'

Three days later Fireman Bob picked up Billy, dressed him in his uniform and escorted him from his hospital bed to the waiting hook and ladder truck. Billy got to sit on the back of the truck and help steer it back to the fire station. He was in heaven. There were three fire calls in Phoenix that day and Billy got to go out on all three calls. He rode in the different fire engines, the Paramedic's' van, and even the fire chief's car. He was also videotaped for the local news program.

Having his dream come true, with all the love and attention that was lavished upon him, so deeply touched Billy, that he lived three months longer than any doctor thought possible.

One night all of his vital signs began to drop dramatically and the head nurse, who believed in the hospice concept - that no one should die alone, began to call the family members to the hospital. Then she remembered the day Billy had spent as a Fireman, so she called the Fire Chief and asked if it would be possible to send a fireman in uniform to the hospital to be with Billy as he made his transition.

The chief replied, 'We can do better than that. We'll be there in five minutes. Will you please do me a favour?

When you hear the sirens screaming and see the lights flashing, will you announce over the PA system that there is not a fire?' 'It's the department coming to see one of its finest members one more time. And will you open the window to his room?'

About five minutes later a hook and ladder truck arrived at the hospital and extended its ladder up to Billy's third floor open window --------

16 fire-fighters climbed up the ladder into Billy's room!

With his mother's permission, they hugged him and held him and told him how much they LOVED him. With his dying breath, Billy looked up at the fire chief and said, 'Chief, am I really a fireman now?'

'Billy, you are, and The Head Chief, God* is holding your hand,' the chief said.

With those words, Billy smiled and said, 'I know, He's been holding my hand all day, and the angels have been singing.'

He closed his eyes one last time.

Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

"Dream as if you'll live forever,
live as if you'll die tomorrow."

See you my babies...

Just came back from KLIA after sending my sis and the babies off...sigh..feeling very sad now. Not sure when will I have the chance to see them again. I would love to see them everyday..imagine for the past one week, when i am back home from work, they will be there to greet me "Hello aunty!!" They totally melt my heart. Gonna miss that for sure :( okay..got to work hard and save money now to buy more plane tickets to Kuching..

Kids grows up very fast nowadays...even though just a few months, it makes alot of difference. If given the chance, i would love to be with them 24/7 seeing them grow, teaching them just about everything and anything that is possible. Im missing them very much already :( sighh...










Bon voyage my darlings, take care and see you all soon! =) Missing you all always xoxox

I'm dreaming of a white christmas....

Ho ho ho...its Christmas season soon..usually this is the season which i am looking forward the most throughout the year...however, this year will be very different from previous years. This is actually the first year im celebrating Christmas myself...

Cant stop thinking bout the past whenever i see the christmas decorations thou or hear the christmas carol...but im definitely working on it =)

A new christmas season,
A new year coming,
New hope and life still goes on...

Hmm...i need to be cracking my head starting from now...i have no idea what to get for my family this year. Any help? Please share some ideas ya... :)

x'mas deco at Curve

with naomi

with bro and nieces

Oh ya btw, i watched Twilight Saga, New Moon already! But the sad thing is...there is no ending!! I have to wait till the next episode is out, which maybe taking more than a year or so?? Oh come on! Why the directors have to make us suffer..sob sob..

Watching this movies reminds me of the past and now... The things they said, i have once heard before myself..which makes the situation worst. I felt a sharp pain in my heart then. I was trying hard not to be emotional but i guess i lost it. I'm working on it thou...i want to be a happier person but at times i cant help but feeling lonely inside. Sighh..din expect a vampire movie can make me so emotional...lol..



I am definitely gonna get the book! Cant wait to know the ending...hehe or is there anyone who is kind enough to borrow me if you have it? :P


Have a nice rest and long weekend everyone..gonna spend precious time with my bed and nieces before they leave on sunday. Enjoy your holidays! :)